Children and Youth Formation

Children’s Formation at St. Stephen’s happens through different modalities and is meant to guide, nurture and support the active spiritual lives of our youth and children. Our belief is that children’s spiritual formation and religious literacy is developed by actively participating in worship and through family-supported faith-based conversations/exploration/education/rituals. Offerings vary by Sunday and may include:

  • Formation through Participation in Church Services – An open invitation to children, youth and families to greet, serve as lector or litanist, assist with Communion, and/or learn about and perform Chancel Guild duties.
  • Youth Circle Time with Rev. Nicole or a member of the Parish – An opportunity once or twice a month to meet with Rev. Nicole or a parishioner during the church service (typically during the sermon time) in the Canterbury Room for a scriptural/formational lesson, spiritual exploration and discussion (ideal for youth grades 3 – high school).
  • Art and Creative Table – Every Sunday the children and youth are welcome to gather at this table in the back of church to draw and create. Sometimes the clergy give prompts. There may also be formation packets or weekly children’s bulletins available for each child to work through over the course of a liturgical season.
  • A Youth Group initiative for grades 6-12 through Scarboro United Church. Speak to Rev. Nicole if you are interested participating.

    Offered less regularly:
  • The Children’s Moment – An invitational moment at the start of service to gather with the clergy at the front of the sanctuary for a short lesson.
  • Children’s Gospel Reading – Some Sundays, we may read a children’s version of the Gospel reading alongside the version included in the Lectionary.
  • Family Sing Sunday – On designated Sundays before church starts, families are invited to participate in a short rehearsal with the choir of a child-friendly hymn that is sung during the service.
  • StoryPath – StoryPath links lectionary readings (the prescribed readings we hear from the Bible every Sunday) with children’s story books. Seasonally, we may offer a time to gather with clergy before the service, to read and discuss a book together. We also encourage parents to reinforce lectionary themes week by week with their children, using the StoryPath conversation prompts to guide discussion. Most of the books included on StoryPath are available at the Calgary Public Library.

Our summer Spiritual Toolkit for Families offers several resources you may find helpful.

Summer 2026 Reading List : Summer gives us both the challenge and reward of free time, and a great way to utilize that time is with reading! With that in mind, here are some resources for those interested in building or continuing a progressive Christian library:

Books about faith with inclusive illustrations and progressive theology

Books to teach kids about racism and compassion 

Books for kids about Palestine

Books about immigration, migration, & refugees

H/t Holy Companion, Littleton, CO

How can we attract more young families? It’s a question many churches are asking these days. Click here to learn more.

Nursery Care on Sundays: A reminder that Nursery Care is available every Sunday during the 10:30am service for ages 1–4, though older kids are more than welcome to hang out with their siblings or the other children provided they are helpful to Nursery attendants Beth and Elvie. Summer Schedule: Nursery Care is on hiatus during the month of August and will restart in September. 

Youth Group: The Youth Group for youth grades 7-12 supported by Scarboro United Church and open to youth from St. Stephen’s is on hiatus until the fall. This group strives to foster belonging and community. Stay tuned for updates about the fall schedule.